A teaching moment
Posted: Tuesday, June 02, 2009 by Travis Cody inTime for parents to step up.
LeBron James, star of the NBA's Cleveland Cavaliers, refused to shake hands with Orlando players after the Magic defeated the Cavs in the Eastern Conference finals. Orlando will face Los Angeles in game 1 of the NBA Finals on Thursday.
Mr James also left the arena without meeting with his Nike sponsors or visiting the press room to answer media questions about the game.
Mr James, age 24, said of his behavior,
"One thing about me you gotta understand; it is hard for me to congratulate somebody after just losing to him...I'm a winner. That's not being a poor sport or anything like that. If somebody beats you up, you are not going to congratulate them [for] beating you up. That doesn't make sense to me, I'm a competitor and that is what I do. It doesn't make sense to me to go over and shake somebody's hand."
There you go, parents.
This is a young man with extraordinary basketball skills. He gave his all during the 6 games. He had one of the greatest playoff runs by an individual player in NBA history. He's the MVP of the league for 2008-09.
But he couldn't walk over to one of his Team USA mates, who had just had his own extraordinary series and is about to fulfill one of his dreams...to play in the NBA finals and try to become a champion...Mr James couldn't be bothered to congratulate that other young man on a hard fought victory.
There's your teaching moment. Get it right.
Anyone can be a gracious winner. It takes a true sportsman to be gracious in defeat.
Winner? Competitor? Sorry Mr James. Try that again.
But thank you for the teaching moment.
Trav what a shame that is for him to do that. What kind of example is he setting for the youth today that worship the ground he walks on? It was a sad day when that happened and I hope everyone with children reads this posts and sets their children right. Whenever I have my nieces and newphews with me is respect for all, gratitude and thankfulness. Whether you win or loose it's how you play the game and the same goes for anyone else in that game. He owes everyone an I'm sorry. He should be ashamed of himself. Excellent post :)